Frequently Asked Questions
Questions families often ask
If this is your first time buying a memorial, these answers are a starting point. We're glad to talk through any of them with you.
How do I begin choosing a memorial?
Start by scheduling a consultation. We'll sit down with you in person or online, listen to what you want, and walk through the options. No pressure, no obligation.
What is the difference between a monument, headstone, and grave marker?
The terms overlap, but they usually mean different forms. A monument stands upright on a base. A headstone is a single upright stone at the head of a grave. A flat grave marker (also called a grass or flush marker) lies flush with the ground. We'll help you figure out which one your cemetery allows and what fits what you want.
Can I create a completely custom memorial?
Yes. Custom and special-cut memorials can be personalized in shape, size, color, lettering, inscriptions, and artwork. The point isn't to add everything — it's to make something personal that lasts.
What granite colors are available?
Grey, black, rose, green, and salt-and-pepper are all common. We'll go over what's currently available during your consultation so you can pick what fits the memorial you have in mind.
Can artwork or photographs be added?
Yes. Etched artwork, porcelain photos, portraits where it makes sense, flowers, religious or cultural symbols, military recognition, and images of hobbies or work can all be added. We'll talk through what works for the stone and the setting.
Can you add a final date or additional lettering to an existing monument?
Often, yes. We can add final dates, names, inscriptions, epitaphs, and decorative engraving, and we can usually match the existing lettering. Every stone is different, so we look at it first before promising anything.
Does the cemetery have to approve the monument?
Yes. Most cemeteries have rules about size, material, style, placement, and installation. It's best to check your cemetery's rules early.
Can Cornerstone help me understand cemetery requirements?
We can help you understand the process and gather what you need. But each cemetery sets its own rules, so we work with you rather than taking responsibility for another cemetery's policies.
Do I need to meet in person?
No. We do both in-person and virtual consultations, so we can work with families across Norfolk, Hampton Roads, and beyond.
How long does a memorial take?
It depends on the design, material, personalization, cemetery rules, approvals, production, and installation. Contact us and we'll give you an estimate for your specific project.
How much does a memorial cost?
It depends on the granite, size, style, lettering, personalization, and installation. We keep pricing clear and honest — request a consultation and we'll walk you through it for your project.
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Bring us the story. We'll bring the craft.
Tell us what matters most, and we'll help you turn it into a memorial that lasts. A custom memorial is built around a person, not a standard shape. The goal isn't more decoration — it's something personal that feels right for the person it honors. Would you rather talk through the process? Give us a call.

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